Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

[Determined]

Feeling down also tonight because our boys have been so excited about Farthers day today and I have been stressed and intolerant 😕

I want to try and do something special with them in a couple of weeks when everything settles down. 

I dont know why but that has just overwhelmed me. 

[Smc]

I think I get what you mean. 😞 Hope you can get that "special time" with them. Sounds like it's important for all of you.

[Determined]

.edit 2

I just wanted to explain for the benefit of anyone reading here later that I removed my original content so context of following posts is not lost.

I was feeling a little emotional and on reflection did not explain things very well so thought it better to try again later.  

[Former-Member]

@Determined  am  concerned that you need some immediate support

@Former-Member  are you able to check in 

[Determined]

I am so sorry @Former-Member did not mean to cause you or anyone any alarm. What I wrote did not make any sense at all. I will be ok, just need a good sleep. Tomorrow is a new day. 

[Former-Member]

No alarm @Determined  feeling your pain and someone better qualified than I am may be able to give you something to help you through the next couple of days. You know I will uphold you in prayer. 

[Former-Member]

 No need to apologise Bro, feeling your pain @Determined alert not alarmed,  hoping someone could give you some words or strategies to help you through the next couple of days until you can see your own supports.

[Former-Member]

Hi @Determined,

It sounds like things have been really tough. I appreciate that you have posted to let everyone know you are okay, but have sent an email to check in as well.

Take care,

Tortoiseshell

[Smc]

Take care @Determined. Praying.

[Determined]

Thank you @Smc & @Former-Member.

And thank you also @Former-Member I have responded to your email.