Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

[Determined]

Has been an ok day today @Former-Member

Dark clouds on the horizon though 🙁

Mum in law has passed another threshold re health.

[Former-Member]

Oh @Determined so sorry to hear that. 

[Determined]

Darling cycling between teary and tender to angry and .....     At least she is talking about things to me.

S2 has worked out where things are headed and a bit the same .   Had a discussion with him about it last night after he came back from visiting mum crying.   Going to have to talk to S1 over the weekend about it all. 

[Former-Member]

As hard as it is @Determined the children will appreciate it in the long term.

My parents had a policy they would never teach us what they would have to "unteach" .

[Smc]

@Determined, lots of love and prayers from here.

[Former-Member]

@Determined  do you have the 'walking on eggshells' book? Was wondering if that gave any tips on BPD and bereavement. 

[Former-Member]

@Determined

Being practical ... but thinking of you a lot.

[Determined]

@Former-Member

I have the e-book version but it (the book e-format)  is useless and I have never been able to get into it. Not able to search or skip pages but have to go to each page forward and back consecutively. I really do need to get a hard copy. 

[Determined]

Mum in law went to hospital by ambulance this morning. 

Hospital Dr's have decided it is blood sugar related and everyone seems excited by the result but I am not convinced and finding it all very hard to cope with.  Mum in law gave me a big lecture at the hospital about not being so anxious and upright. This did not help. 🙁

[Determined]

I was not going to go in as concerned I would fall apart but she insisted. Sounds harsh but wishing now I had not.