Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

[Former-Member]

My mum in a pickle about it all @Determined @Shaz51.  I think she is finding all the assessments a bit much. 

[Shaz51]

I think she is finding all the assessments a bit much. -- they are @Former-Member, @Determined

they go and visit mum and  ring mum up and tell her lots  of things

and even one sent her a bill ??

she tells them that I do everything , and that she does not want some of the things they are suggesting

then they ring me and say that my mum is very confused about things

[Determined]

Well things have gone pear shaped here.

Mum in law has gone back to hospital via ambulance. She was trying to hang out as Bro in law was on his way but left before he arrived 🙁  

Waiting now for news. 

[Smc]

@Determined, . 😞

[Former-Member]

@Determined  😢  

[Shaz51]

ohhhhhhhh @Determined sitting with you xx

[Determined]

Wanted to wish all of my special friends here a happy Christmas and say how blessed and grateful I feel for your friendship and support. I trust you can all find some joy today. xo 

[Determined]

We are having family over for lunch here and after church this morning heading up to the hospital to visit Mum in law. Altering initially being told she could come home she will now be staying in hospital for the next couple of days at least 😕

I will be making more of an effort to be more present with my family so if I am not around it does not anything bad. 

[Former-Member]

@Determined .Thinking especially of you and yours today.

[Former-Member]

Your family need you to be present Bro ... extra hugs might be the order of the day @Determined.