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SPRING-Clean Declutter - Need Help

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nb* I love and respect my inlaws a lot so that is said in jest . 

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@Determined, you've made your respect for the in-laws generally obvious in your posts. 🙂 It's good when the extended family are easy to live with. Very literally in your case.

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I was too distressed at the airpirt yesterday, at being late, feeling out f control, locked out segregated and embarrassed... ... (that they refused to let me through to the plane 20min before takeoff), and that the 'Folder Lady' felt the need to ask me to "calm down" 😕 Yep, I was triggered, about to implode (which frightens me) so I rolled my eyes back, turned on my heels, grabbed my bag, hightailed out of there. Sobbed all the way to the car and most the rest of the day at home.
Not getting any work done and couldn't sleep.

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😞 Take care @Former-Member. Not getting work done for a bit is OK if you need the recovery time.

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@Former-Member.

Hope tomorrow is a better day for you.

 

 

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This morning was the 2hr grueling teleconference with Guardianship Tribunal for dad. I got adrenalin shakes toward the end, it was that distressing / confronting. Lucky for my my astute grief counsellor arranged to ring me immediately after the hearing andvi was so relieved to have someone caring to talk to. She actually cared about me. Even reminded me to go for a walk to shake off some of the stress from the hearing. It was a great debrief. And she said she'll ring me next week and she's not panicked when I mention SI...
So... didn't get much done again today. But...

 

Had a short burstburst of energy  9pm & packed x4 more boxes for charity, and one garbage bag of rubbish. Lots of dust 😞

 

Barely keeping eyes open now, so tired...  Achieved a lot.

 

 



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Hope you got some good sleep last night @Former-Member. In fact, given you posted that midnight-ish, I hope you're still asleep now!

Well done with pushing through a bit more, and I hope the tribunal results are good.

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@Former-Member

Hoping things are progressing for you and you can get some rest tonight. 

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