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07 Dec 2018 03:55 PM
07 Dec 2018 03:55 PM
That is so beautiful Darcy, it's touched my heart in a big way.
TY Darcy I love you x
@Former-Member
07 Dec 2018 08:57 PM
07 Dec 2018 08:57 PM
Just been listening to this.
Often a source of encouragement for me so wanted to share it.
07 Dec 2018 09:01 PM
07 Dec 2018 09:01 PM
i agree @Determined
08 Dec 2018 07:09 PM
08 Dec 2018 07:09 PM
09 Dec 2018 08:36 AM
09 Dec 2018 08:36 AM
@Shaz51 @Former-Member xx
Please support in prayer TY
I am heart broken, it comes & it goes. I am shattered inside, I am in pain. I miss the best friend & man I love. I pray & pray, I have faith, I do not blame God. He is gone, he died to me, he can not come back to me. I asked God to help me, my heart is & body are trapped. Like their is no way out, I can not let go, I don't want to let go. I give him to God then, then I take him back. When will this stop hurting, why do I hang on, is there hope for me?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0bjB-IWEYI0&index=42&list=RDEFJ7kDva7JE
09 Dec 2018 09:09 AM
09 Dec 2018 09:09 AM
09 Dec 2018 09:56 AM
09 Dec 2018 09:56 AM
Life without someone we loved is different, things have changed and we have feelings that are sometimes uncomfortable, we miss them and we miss how they made us feel.
Like the tide going in and out, sometimes the waves of grief are big and rough, other times they are just a ripple. Learning how to surf doesn't stop the waves, but it helps us not to be swamped when they are big, but remember, even experienced surfers don't master every wave.
Surfing with grief takes different forms and if you are seeing a therapist they can help you with some strategies on how to manage life without your friend.
I think it important not to deny the feelings we have but rather acknowledge them ...and get the wetsuit out.
Gracious father, @SunFlower_7 is hurting, she is missing her friend. I pray that you will not only provide comfort to her but also strength for today and for the days ahead.
Lord, I also remember @Determined at this time. He too is feeling the waves building as the storm of grief is slowly approaching when he will be farewelling his MIL. I pray for strength and guidance as he captains the family ship; both big and little ones on board are frightened and will likely act in ways that are challenging. Lord, each will grieve in their own way and as they do, I pray your love will enfold Determined and you will be his peace.
Amen
09 Dec 2018 10:18 AM
09 Dec 2018 10:18 AM
@SunFlower_7 That was beautiful to watch and listen to. ❤️
09 Dec 2018 11:51 AM
09 Dec 2018 11:51 AM
09 Dec 2018 03:20 PM
09 Dec 2018 03:20 PM
TY Darcy, I appreciate pray support x
I have GP helping me, my music, & Spirituality, Faith in God gives me Strength.
@Former-Member
TY BlueBay, the music soothes, helps my body & mind to relax. The beauty & truth in the pictures helps me be centred & not overwhelmed. x
TY Determined, I appreciate you for being here for me. I am praying for you now. x
TY all who care, I will do the same for you. x
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