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Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

So do I @Former-Member

Seems the sellers are having trouble clearing their mortgage. If they cant do that???

May have to move again  🤬

I just cant believe this was not sorted before the place was put on the market. Agents recon they have not seen anything like this before. 

4 more weeks now and hopefully it will be over. 

Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

Haven't had that happen to anyone I know before @Determined

Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

Going bike shopping this afternoon with my mum. Turns out who I thought would be my biggest critic (most anxious about the idea) is my biggest supporter. She is actually considering getting a bike of her own to go riding with me 😁

 

Mentioned a side cart would be fun until I sent her this lol 

 

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Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

There are some nice 3 wheelers that might be better for a senior citizen (talking about Mum here)  @Determined.  Do you think you would look at a side car for your darling (or kids)? 😀

Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

PS I would not be brave enough to go in a side car 😀

Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

So frustrating for you @Determined - hope the moving thing is sorted out soon. Kids back at school now. How are they going?

Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

How did you get on today @Determined

Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

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@Former-Member  😉

Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

@Former-Member Darling is not remotely interested in the  ikenidea at the moment. Happy for me to do this but wont be joining me.

 

Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

@soul nice to hear from you. Trust things are ok for you.

Children are back at school this week.

Bit worried about S2. He will be seeing a new councillor starting in 2 weeks. I had an introduction meeting with her this week to pass on some background that s2 does not need to hear.  Based on that discussion she wants me to get him to a child psychiatrist for an official assessment. Third time lucky. This is the first person in that capacity not to tell me I am just emotional and over reacting. 

S1 doing ok. Always in the moment.

S3 starts at a new kindy tomorrow. Hoping we have made the right decision there but were not happy with the last one. But as always he is a happy easy going little chap. 

 

 

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