Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

[Determined]

Thanks @Former-Member

I actually cancelled tomorrow's  appointment much to the dismay of my gp. Got a big lecture about looking after myself better lol. It was just all too much with everything we have going on and just getting down and back was too hard. The hospital for the procedure is a bit over an hour drive away.   Rescheduled for next Wednesday though so not as big a delay as I was expecting. 

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Is your mum dog sitting for moving day @Determined?

[Determined]

LoL @Former-Member

I had not given the dogs a thought until tonight when mum asked would we like her to take them. They went home with her after dinner and wont be back until mum comes for dinner next Thursday. 

[Former-Member]

Is everything set for the move to happen tomorrow @Determined

[Determined]

As ready as it will ever be @Former-Member

Had planned to do another trailenof odds and ends tonight but feeling flat after stopping for dinner. Driving possibly not the wisest decision when this tired. 

Aiming for a 4.30 start in  the morning though. Movers will be here at 7 and I have beds and tv unit  to disassemble. Boxes to load on our trailer so they are out of the way. 

[Determined]

We had carpet cleaning and pest control done at the new place today and have taken a lot of odds and ends over already. 

I also had a councillor appointment at the uni today so feeling more settled after working through some stuff.  Have arranged to have next week off work and a plan to catch up on study and assessment.  

Mum in law was released from hospital. I think it was too soon but she was determined to be home for the move. I am a bit anxious how much it will take out if her but not much I can do other than be there for a practice support. 

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I'll wish you all the best now @Determined,  as it is bound to be a busy day tomorrow. I hope that this move will in some way help lighten the load. 

[Determined]

Thanks @Former-Member

[Former-Member]

Good morning @Determined

[Determined]

Morning @Former-Member  😴