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Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

 @Determined 

How did things go?

 

Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

I think mum.inlaw booked the works slowest movers but went ok @Former-Member

Have a few loose ends at mum and dads house and 1 or 2 full days at our house.

Feeling sore today... I did over 20k steps yesterday.

Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

I put darlings meds somewhere safe yesterday now I cant find them 😖

 

Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

Silver lining = plenty of  time to unpack boxes between deliveries then @Determined 😀

 

Hope not too chaotic Bro. When do you hand in the keys to the old place?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

Ouch, hope the meds turn up. Those "safe places" can be real black holes! Have you got current scripts and time to buy a backup batch?

Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

@Former-Member have 2 weeks to hand the keys over on our old place. Managed to convince darling to not worry about it until next weekend and focus on boxes at our new place. 

 

Yep @Smc safe places not always the best idea. Put it somewhere darling would not find it as we are currently without a locking box. Problem is I cant remember where that was.

Thankfully had repeat scripts on file at the chemist and they filled them for me. They usually refuse to fill them more than 5 days early. 

Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

Bit of breathing space there @Determined

Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

Finished mum and dads place this morning @Former-Member our place on hold other than setting up some beds for the boys and moving over some of my more valuable toys and boat. Going to take it easy for a bit and get back into it next weekend. 

 

 

Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

Are you sleeping in new house now @Determined?

Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

First night in new house last night @Former-Member

Doesn't settle until the end of next week but we were able to pay a weeks rent and get in early. 

Mum and Dad had to be out of their house yesterday. 

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