Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

[Determined]

It was a bit like that on Saturday @soul  😁

[Determined]

When our neighbor saw I had a bike he  mentioned he is keen to go for an extended ride when his bike comes back from the mechanic and doesn't mind taking it easy for a novice ☺ might get to go a bit further afield than mum wants to just yet, 

That way I get to sus out some good rides for when mum is ready for a bigger ride 😁

[Determined]

Thinking it is a good thing I have a counselling appointment this week. 

Although darling is oblivious and looking forward to a morning out together tomorrow while the car is having new tyres fitted I am feeling poorly after an incident last night.

Over feeling rejected and unappreciated.

Some recent coments by Darcy on here thread has helped to put things in perspective but still not easy to accept that this is how it is and likley will never change.

[soul]

Acceptance of a difficult situation isn't easy @Determined. Thinking of you and hoping that today is better. Glad that you are enjoying your new toy. 

[Determined]

Thanks @soul

There are times when I think I have it sorted and then something happens and it all comes back to the surface. Getting better at recognising negative emotions for what they are but doesn't make them any easier to put aside. Work in progress lol.

[Former-Member]

Good morning @Determined

Quick check in.

[Determined]

Doing ok @Former-Member

Quiet day in today with little man while darling is out visiting. I was going to go out and get some things done but little man wanted to stay with me. Good enough excuse to stay home playing under the fan 😊

[Former-Member]

Three course dinner underway for this evening @Determined?

[Determined]

LoL @Former-Member

Frozen pizza for dinner tonight.

S2 has yr6 grad presentation at school so early dinner before that.

Going to bake some scones to take for contribution to after snacks. 

[Former-Member]

All jokes aside @Determined, I do hope  you are getting in a bit of relaxation Bro