Some positive news in the determined family, well at least I am looking at it as positive and holding on to hope that this is the first step for some positive change. 

We went to see our pastor about some relationship councilling at my darlings request. She for the first time ever was open and honest about how she currently feels about marriage. (That part wasnt very positive 😔) . I love and appreciate pastors ability to state the obvious in such a defusing way. It was quite a productive visit.  

He is going to contact a councillor he has worked with before to see if she is able to work with us...  making first contact and explaining our situation is always very difficult for me so this step is much appreciated. 

Holding on to hope that this may be able to give us some direction as we could really do with the help at the moment.